And wtf was that nonsense about it being “the home”? Is that a slight at the fact that my home now is a lot more affluent and his is kinda run down? I don’t give a shit about that stuff and he knows it. And then to say I “should’ve waited”?! Eww. Coming to the house that we once shared after all these years was a monumental step for me & he treated it like it was a Marketplace sale with porch pickup. He couldn’t be bothered to come to the door and say “hello” or “nice to see you,” or “thanks for supporting my organization,” or just acknowledge my existence … it made me feel like shit. But I was very offended that he left them outside when he was actually home. It would’ve been fine if he had left the stuff outside because he wasn’t home. 5 days later he messaged again saying: “I’m not sure why you’re mad at me. He proceeded to msg me on Facebook asking what’s wrong, and I didn’t answer. Him: Did I just hear your car? Just finished blow drying my hair and heard a car rumble. Him: The goods are on the porch table :) I’m hopping in the shower Me: I’m done for the day & 5 mins away so just lmk Him: I’ll leave them out for ya if I’m not at home :) Heading home to drop off my groceries then planned on heading to my sister’s. Him: I’m just leaving Costco with my parents. You could leave them outside if you’re going out - or I could meet u somewhere. He wasn’t answering texts or fb msgs for hours on the day I decided to pick them up, and when he finally did reply, it went like this: Since I work right by his house, I offered to pick them up (he initially said he’d deliver). He was recently fundraising for a local program he’s involved with & asked if I’d like to buy some of the baked goods he was selling. It’s been about a year since we ran into each other & talked face to face - but we communicate fairly regularly on social (rekindling was entirely initiated by him, and he’s made the bulk of the effort to maintain those communications). I missed talking to him because while we sucked at being in a rltshp, we were great at being friends and slowly, over the years, we’ve become friends again. (Sorry, it’s long) My ex & I had a horrible break up years ago.
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